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It's okay to be opinionated, have your own point of view, have a say of what you think and give a sense of what you feel. Nothing's wrong with laying out something to someone else from your perspective.
But then again, there's also nothing wrong with being tolerate and considerate about what others have to say as well. Generally, everyone will be granted to have freedom of speech. No one will be able to forbid you from criticizing, questioning, demanding etc.
As such, we humans have this ability to respond to the situation. For instance, since you have said what you wanted to and given your insights on that issue, it's fair to give someone else to lay out their point of view as well.
Well, the thing getting in the way here is when you tend to cover your ears and eyes from listening or hearing other people's comments.
I don't necessarily mean that you are enforced to consent with the other person BUT it doesn't mean you can shut down other people's insight and be rude because you think your interpretations and opinions are always right. That just shows how arrogant you can be.
This doesn't imply to any particular individual but instead I would just like to say this, generally, to all. There's a lot of people who are self-opinionated and I'm not wholly saying it's a bad thing. Some people actually do have a respectable insight but what's lack is the outlook and approach of that individual. When you are given a statement that opposes to yours, don't neglect or disregard it. Hear and consider what the person has to say and retort courteously. Despite the fact that you are perceptibly right, always have the decency to at least LISTEN to what others have to say and REACT in a mannerly way.
Yes you are, hands down, astoundingly intelligent and in most cases, you're always right - But what's knowledge without learning from others?
But then again, there's also nothing wrong with being tolerate and considerate about what others have to say as well. Generally, everyone will be granted to have freedom of speech. No one will be able to forbid you from criticizing, questioning, demanding etc.
As such, we humans have this ability to respond to the situation. For instance, since you have said what you wanted to and given your insights on that issue, it's fair to give someone else to lay out their point of view as well.
Well, the thing getting in the way here is when you tend to cover your ears and eyes from listening or hearing other people's comments.
I don't necessarily mean that you are enforced to consent with the other person BUT it doesn't mean you can shut down other people's insight and be rude because you think your interpretations and opinions are always right. That just shows how arrogant you can be.
This doesn't imply to any particular individual but instead I would just like to say this, generally, to all. There's a lot of people who are self-opinionated and I'm not wholly saying it's a bad thing. Some people actually do have a respectable insight but what's lack is the outlook and approach of that individual. When you are given a statement that opposes to yours, don't neglect or disregard it. Hear and consider what the person has to say and retort courteously. Despite the fact that you are perceptibly right, always have the decency to at least LISTEN to what others have to say and REACT in a mannerly way.
Yes you are, hands down, astoundingly intelligent and in most cases, you're always right - But what's knowledge without learning from others?
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